Parenting

Relocating with Children After Separation

Whether you can move — and what steps you need to take — depends on your circumstances, existing orders, and the child's best interests.

14 min read5 sectionsJanuary 2026
Relocation is not prohibited — but it is tightly regulated. Whether you have existing court orders, and how far you plan to move, determines whether you need the other parent's agreement, a court order, or both. Moving without taking the right steps first can result in recovery orders, enforcement proceedings, and lasting damage to your case.

When you can — and can't — relocate

There is no specific "relocation provision" in the Family Law Act. Relocation is treated as a parenting matter governed by the best interests principle. Your ability to move depends on your current situation.

Scenario A: no existing court orders

Without parenting orders, there is no court order prohibiting your movement. However, relocating unilaterally — without the other parent's agreement — is strongly discouraged. The other parent can file an urgent application for recovery orders to have the child returned.

Even without orders, unilateral relocation can severely damage your credibility with the court and may be viewed as undermining the child's relationship with the other parent.

Scenario B: existing parenting orders

If parenting orders specify living arrangements and time with each parent, relocating in breach of those orders is a contravention that can result in enforcement proceedings. You must apply to vary the orders before moving.

Under section 65DAAA (commenced May 2024), the court will only reconsider final orders if there has been a "significant change of circumstances" and it is in the child's best interests to reconsider.

Scenario C: orders with specific relocation restrictions

Some parenting orders include specific restrictions — for example, "The child shall live within 50km of [suburb]." These are binding and enforceable. To relocate, you must either obtain the other parent's written consent to vary the orders or apply to the court for a variation.

Key case law on relocation

Two High Court decisions establish the foundational principles, supplemented by recent decisions under the 2024 amendments.

AMS v AIF [1999] HCA 26

The mother sought to relocate from Perth to Darwin with the child. The High Court held the trial judge erroneously required a "good reason" for the move.

Key principle: There is no prerequisite that a parent establish a compelling reason for relocation. The paramount consideration is the child's best interests. A parent's reasons for moving may be relevant but are not a threshold requirement.

U v U [2002] HCA 36

The mother sought to relocate from Australia to Mumbai with a 9-year-old child. This remains the leading authority on international relocation.

Key principle: The court is not bound by the parties' polarised proposals. There is no onus on the relocating parent. The court may fashion its own solution rather than simply choosing between the two competing proposals.

Cunningham & Foster [2024] FedCFamC2F 1725

The mother applied to relocate from NSW to Queensland with a 9-year-old. The court permitted relocation, recognising the mother's critical caregiving role and enhanced support network in Queensland.

Significance: Demonstrates how courts approach relocation under the new framework — focus on best interests without the structural presumption of equal shared parental responsibility, which was repealed on 6 May 2024.

Interstate vs international relocation

The legal consequences differ significantly depending on whether you are moving within Australia or taking a child overseas.

AspectInterstateInternational
Governing lawFamily Law Act (federal)Family Law Act + criminal provisions
Criminal offenceNoYes — ss 65Y & 65Z (up to 3 years' imprisonment)
Best interests testStandard s60CC factorsStandard s60CC factors, with heightened scrutiny
Recovery mechanismRecovery orders under s67QHague Convention (signatory countries) or diplomatic channels

The Hague Convention

Australia is a signatory to the 1980 Hague Convention on International Child Abduction. If a child is wrongfully removed to (or retained in) a signatory country, the Convention provides a mechanism for prompt return to Australia. For non-signatory countries, options are far more limited — making international relocation to those countries subject to heightened scrutiny. The Australian Central Authority (within the Attorney-General's Department) administers Hague Convention applications.

Practical steps if you are considering relocation

Start the process well before your intended move date — contested relocation matters typically take 12–18 months to reach a final hearing, and courts are generally reluctant to grant interim relocation orders.

1. Do not relocate unilaterally

Even without court orders, moving without agreement carries significant legal risk. The other parent can file urgent applications for recovery orders.

2. Give written notice

Provide the other parent with a written proposal: destination, timing, reasons for the move, and proposed new parenting arrangements. Allow several months before your intended move date.

3. Prepare a detailed relocation proposal

Include housing, employment or income arrangements, schooling options, childcare and medical providers, extended family support, and a proposed parenting schedule showing how the child will maintain their relationship with the other parent.

4. Propose a revised parenting plan

Demonstrate you have given serious thought to maintaining the child's relationship with the other parent. Include school holiday time, video call schedules, travel logistics, and who bears travel costs.

Strengthening your application

Courts look favourably on parents who demonstrate genuine efforts to maintain the child's relationship with the other parent. A concrete, realistic, and generous proposed parenting plan — showing school holiday time, regular video calls, and willingness to share travel costs — significantly strengthens your position.

5. Attend Family Dispute Resolution

If the other parent does not agree, attend FDR (mediation) with an accredited practitioner. If unsuccessful, obtain a Section 60I certificate for your court application.

6. Seek legal advice

Relocation law is complex. Obtain advice from a family lawyer, particularly if there are existing court orders, family violence allegations, or international relocation is proposed.

7. If court proceedings are necessary

File promptly — delays can be held against you. Do not relocate before obtaining court permission. Gather evidence: school enrolment confirmations, employment contracts, housing arrangements, and proposed contact schedules.

Typical timeframes

Given that contested relocation matters typically take 12–18 months to reach a final hearing, start the process well before your intended move date.

StageTypical timeframe
Family Dispute Resolution4–8 weeks
Filing to first directions hearing2–4 weeks
Filing to interim hearing2–4 months
Filing to final hearing12–18 months
Judgment deliveryWeeks to months after hearing
Courts are generally reluctant to grant interim relocation orders, meaning you may need to wait for the final hearing before moving. A child who moves on an interim basis and then must return after a final hearing faces significant disruption.

Common questions

Can I relocate with my child without the other parent's consent?

It depends on whether court orders exist. Without court orders, there is no legal prohibition on moving — but relocating unilaterally is strongly discouraged and can severely damage your credibility with the court. The other parent can file an urgent application to have the child returned. With existing parenting orders, relocating in breach of those orders is a contravention and can result in enforcement proceedings. Always seek agreement first, or apply to the court for permission.

How far can I move before it counts as 'relocation'?

There is no legal definition of how far constitutes a 'relocation.' The practical test is whether the proposed move would significantly affect the existing parenting arrangements — particularly the child's time with the other parent. Moving 10km away in the same city is unlikely to be contentious. Moving to a different city or state almost certainly requires the other parent's agreement or court approval.

What happens if the court refuses my relocation application?

If the court refuses relocation, the child remains in the current location under the existing (or newly made) parenting orders. You can still move yourself — but the child stays. In some cases, refusal of relocation may result in the court changing the child's primary residence to the other parent if the relocating parent intends to move regardless.

Can I get interim orders to relocate while waiting for a final hearing?

Courts are generally reluctant to grant interim relocation orders because moving a child temporarily — only to potentially reverse the decision at the final hearing — would be extremely disruptive. The general position is that the child should remain where they are (in situ) pending a final hearing, unless there are exceptional circumstances such as family violence.

Can I take my child overseas after separation?

If parenting orders are in force or proceedings are pending, removing a child from Australia without the other party's authenticated written consent or a court order is a criminal offence under sections 65Y and 65Z of the Family Law Act (penalty: 3 years' imprisonment). An exception exists where the conduct is necessary to prevent family violence. For holiday travel, you may need to apply for specific orders or obtain written consent.

How do I vary existing parenting orders to allow relocation?

Under the new section 65DAAA (commenced May 2024), you must demonstrate a 'significant change of circumstances' since the existing orders were made. If you can establish this threshold, the court then considers whether it is in the child's best interests to reconsider the orders. You will need to file either new consent orders (if both parties agree) or an Application in a Proceeding (if contested).

Do I need to attend mediation before applying to court?

Yes, unless an exemption applies. Section 60I of the Family Law Act requires you to attempt Family Dispute Resolution (FDR) before filing a court application for parenting orders. Exemptions include family violence, urgency, or where the other party refuses to attend. If FDR is unsuccessful, the practitioner issues a Section 60I certificate, which must be filed with your court application.

Legal disclaimer

This guide provides general information about relocating with children after separation under Australian family law. Key legislative provisions include sections 60CA, 60CC, 65DAAA, 65Y, and 65Z of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth), as amended by the Family Law Amendment Act 2023 (commenced 6 May 2024). Case law referenced includes AMS v AIF [1999] HCA 26, U v U [2002] HCA 36, and Cunningham & Foster [2024] FedCFamC2F 1725. Court decisions depend on the specific facts of each case. This information does not constitute legal advice.