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How to Prepare Your Affidavit for Family Court

An affidavit is your opportunity to tell the court your version of events in your own words. This guide explains how to prepare one that meets the Family Law Rules 2021 and presents your case effectively.

14 min read9 sectionsJanuary 2026

In short

To prepare an affidavit, use Form 14, write in numbered paragraphs, first person, and chronological order, sticking to facts rather than opinions. Attach and certify any documents as annexures, then swear or affirm it before an authorised witness.
In Australian family law, affidavits are the primary method for presenting evidence. A well-prepared affidavit — factual, structured, and properly sworn — gives the court a clear account of your circumstances and supports your application. Making a false statement in an affidavit is a criminal offence.

What is an affidavit?

An affidavit is a formal written statement of facts that you swear or affirm to be true before an authorised witness. It is a legal document that carries significant weight in court proceedings and becomes part of the permanent court record.

Affidavits serve three core purposes in family law matters:

  • Present your evidence — they allow you to set out the facts, circumstances, and events that support your case, replacing oral testimony in many proceedings.
  • Support applications — most applications to the court, including initiating and interim applications, must be accompanied by an affidavit setting out the facts you rely on.
  • Create a record — judges read affidavits to understand the issues before making decisions. What you put in — and leave out — shapes how the court sees your matter.

Perjury warning

Making a false statement in an affidavit is a criminal offence called perjury. It can result in imprisonment. Always ensure everything in your affidavit is true to the best of your knowledge and belief.

Form 14 requirements under the Family Law Rules 2021

Form 14 (Affidavit — General Form) is the standard affidavit used in the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia. Understanding its mandatory elements is essential for preparing a compliant document.

Header information

  • Court name: Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia
  • File number (if already assigned)
  • Names of applicant and respondent

Deponent details

  • Your full name
  • Your address (or address for service)
  • Your occupation

Jurat (swearing clause)

  • Whether sworn or affirmed
  • Date of swearing or affirming
  • Location where sworn or affirmed

Signatures

  • Your signature
  • Witness signature
  • Witness name and qualification

Structure: paragraphs, first person, chronological order

A well-structured affidavit is easier for the court to read and more persuasive. The Family Law Rules 2021 prescribe certain formatting requirements that you must follow.

Numbered paragraphs

Every paragraph must be numbered consecutively (1, 2, 3, …). This makes it easy for the court and other parties to reference specific statements. Example: "1. I am the applicant in these proceedings. 2. I am the mother of [Child's name], born [date]. 3. The respondent is the father of [Child's name]."

First-person narrative

Write in first person using "I" statements. You are telling your story directly to the court. Avoid third-person references: "I attended the handover at 5pm" is correct; "The applicant attended the handover" is not.

Chronological order

Present events in the order they occurred. Start with background information, then progress through events to the present situation:

  1. Background (relationship, children, separation)
  2. Early events and issues
  3. Subsequent events in date order
  4. Current situation
  5. What orders you seek and why

Writing style

Use clear, simple language. Avoid legal jargon unless necessary. Be specific about dates, times, and places. Focus on facts rather than opinions or conclusions — state what you personally saw, heard, or did.

Annexures and exhibits: attaching documents

Supporting documents attached to your affidavit are called annexures or exhibits. These might include text messages, emails, photographs, medical records, or other evidence.

How to attach documents

  1. Reference in the body — refer to each annexure in the body of your affidavit before attaching it. Example: "Annexed hereto and marked 'Annexure A' is a true copy of the text messages between myself and the respondent dated 15 January 2026."
  2. Label each annexure — use consecutive letters (Annexure A, Annexure B) or your initials plus a number (e.g. JS-1, JS-2). Create a cover page for each annexure with the marking clearly visible.
  3. Witness certification — the witness who swears your affidavit must sign or initial each annexure and include a certificate stating: "This is the annexure marked [A] referred to in the affidavit of [Your Name] sworn/affirmed on [date]."
  4. Organise chronologically — where possible, organise annexures in the order they appear in your affidavit. This makes it easier for the court to follow your evidence.

Common annexure types

Text messages and emails, photographs, medical or school reports, financial documents, police reports, letters or notices, social media posts, and court orders from other proceedings.

Swearing and affirming requirements

Your affidavit is not valid until it has been sworn or affirmed before an authorised witness. This formal process makes your statement legally binding.

Swearing (oath)

Swearing involves taking an oath on a religious text. You promise to tell the truth before God: "I swear by Almighty God that this is my name and handwriting and that the contents of this affidavit are true."

Affirming

Affirming is a non-religious alternative with the same legal effect. You solemnly declare the contents are true without reference to a deity: "I solemnly and sincerely declare and affirm that this is my name and handwriting and that the contents of this affidavit are true."

Who can witness your affidavit

  • Justice of the Peace (JP)
  • Australian legal practitioner (solicitor or barrister)
  • Court registrar or deputy registrar
  • Commissioner for declarations
  • Notary public
  • Other persons authorised under state or territory law

Finding a JP

JPs often provide services at police stations, courts, libraries, and community centres. Many offer free services. You can search for a JP in your area through your state or territory Justice Department website.

Common mistakes to avoid

Many affidavits are rejected or given less weight due to avoidable errors. Each mistake below weakens your evidence — addressing them before you swear your affidavit strengthens your case.

  • Including opinions instead of facts — state what you personally observed, not your interpretation. Instead of "The respondent is a bad parent," say "On 15 January 2026, the respondent did not collect the child from school at the agreed time of 3pm."
  • Hearsay evidence without identification — if you are stating what someone else told you, clearly identify this as hearsay and provide the source. "My mother told me that she saw the respondent…" is hearsay and should be stated as such.
  • Vague or unspecific dates — be as specific as possible. "Sometime in 2025" is much less persuasive than "On 15 March 2025 at approximately 6:30pm."
  • Emotional or inflammatory language — keep your language neutral and factual. Avoid words like "always" or "never," or emotional descriptions. Let the facts speak for themselves.
  • Exceeding page or word limits — check the current Practice Directions for applicable limits. Affidavits that exceed limits without leave may be rejected or struck out. Focus on the most important facts relevant to your application.
  • Improper annexure certification — each annexure must be properly marked and certified by the witness. Missing or incorrect annexure certificates can result in the documents being excluded.

Reply affidavits vs initiating affidavits

Understanding the difference between these types of affidavits helps you respond appropriately at each stage of proceedings.

Initiating affidavit

Filed with your application to start proceedings or an interim application. It sets out the facts supporting your application: background and context, the facts on which your claims rest, and why orders are needed.

Reply affidavit

Filed in response to the other party's affidavit. It addresses specific allegations and provides your version of disputed events. Address each allegation directly by paragraph number — for example: "In response to paragraph 15 of the respondent's affidavit sworn on [date], I say that…" Only respond to matters that require a response; do not repeat your entire case.

Filing requirements: Commonwealth Courts Portal

Most documents in the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia are now filed electronically through the Commonwealth Courts Portal.

  1. Create an account — register at comcourts.gov.au if you do not already have one.
  2. Prepare your document — ensure your affidavit is sworn or affirmed and saved as a PDF. Include all annexures in the correct order.
  3. Upload and submit — log in, select the correct matter, choose the document type, upload your PDF, and submit.
  4. Pay the filing fee — some documents attract a filing fee, payable online through the portal.
  5. Serve the other party — after filing, you must serve a copy on the other party (and their lawyer if they have one). Keep proof of service.

Filing deadlines

Court orders or Practice Directions often specify deadlines for filing affidavits. Missing a deadline may require an application for extension of time. Always check your court orders carefully and file well before the deadline.

Common questions

What is an affidavit in family law proceedings?

An affidavit is a written statement of facts that you swear or affirm to be true. In Australian family law, affidavits are the primary way parties present their evidence to the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia. Your affidavit becomes part of the court record and can be used as evidence during hearings. Making a false statement in an affidavit is a criminal offence.

What is the difference between Form 14 and Form 12 affidavits?

Form 14 (Affidavit - General Form) is the standard affidavit used in most family law proceedings under the Family Law Rules 2021. Form 12 (Affidavit - Family Violence) is specifically for matters involving family violence allegations and has particular requirements. The correct form depends on the nature of your case and what evidence you are presenting.

Who can witness my affidavit?

Your affidavit must be witnessed by an authorised person. This includes: a Justice of the Peace (JP), an Australian legal practitioner (solicitor or barrister), a court registrar or deputy registrar, a commissioner for declarations, or other persons authorised under the Oaths Act in your state or territory. The witness must see you sign and must be satisfied of your identity.

What is a reply affidavit and when do I need one?

A reply affidavit is filed in response to affidavits filed by the other party. It allows you to respond to claims made against you, clarify facts, and provide additional evidence. You typically need a reply affidavit when the other party has made allegations you dispute or when new information needs to be addressed before the hearing.

Are there word limits for affidavits in family court?

Yes. Under the Family Law Rules 2021, affidavits generally have page or word limits depending on the type of proceeding. For parenting matters, affidavits are typically limited to specific page counts. The court may grant leave to exceed limits in exceptional circumstances, but you must apply for permission. Check the current Practice Directions for specific limits applying to your matter.

How do I attach documents to my affidavit?

Documents attached to an affidavit are called annexures or exhibits. Each annexure must be clearly identified (e.g., Annexure A, Annexure B) and referred to in the body of your affidavit. The witness must sign or initial each annexure page and add a certificate stating it is the document referred to in your affidavit. Annexures should be organised chronologically and clearly labelled.

How do you write an affidavit for family court?

Use Form 14 (Affidavit — General Form), including the required header, deponent details, jurat and signatures. Number every paragraph consecutively, write in the first person, and set out events in chronological order — background, then events in date order, then the orders you seek. Focus on facts you personally saw, heard, or did rather than opinions. Attach any supporting documents as properly certified annexures, then swear or affirm the affidavit before an authorised witness.

Legal disclaimer

This article provides general information about preparing affidavits for Australian family law proceedings. It is not legal advice. Affidavit requirements may vary depending on your specific circumstances, the type of proceedings, and current Practice Directions. The information is current as of January 2026 but court rules and procedures may change. You should seek independent legal advice about your specific situation, particularly for complex or contested matters. Making false statements in an affidavit is a criminal offence.